the famous american host link the wright one day to visit a friend, asked him, “what do you want when you grow up as?” children naively replied: “well… i want to be a pilot!” link, then asked: “if one day, your aircraft flew over the pacific ocean all engine flameout, what would you do?” kid wanted to think: “i will tell a person your seatbelt on the plane first, and then i hung up my parachute jump out.” when the presence of the audience laughs stagger, link the wright to continue watching the child, want to see if he is smart guy. unexpectedly, then two lines of tears filled with children, it makes the link wright found the child heart of compassion than words can describe. then link the wright asked him: “why do you want to do that? ”children exposed the children answer sincere thought:“ i'm going to get fuel, i will come back!!! ”

　　revelation: this is the art of “listening”. one is obedient don't listen to half. second, don't put himself, projected to what others said. learn to listen, listen carefully, listen modestly.

　　美国知名主持人林克莱特有一天访问一名小朋友，问他说：“你长大后想要当做什么呀？”小朋友天真地回答：“嗯……我要当飞机的驾驶员！”林克莱特接着问： “如果有一天，你的飞机飞到太平洋上空所有引擎都熄火了，你会怎么办？”小朋友想了想：“我会先告诉坐在飞机上的人绑好安全带，然后我挂上我的降落伞跳出去。”当在场的观众笑得东倒西歪时，林克莱特继续注视着这孩子，想看他是不是自作聪明的家伙。没想到，接着孩子的两行热泪夺眶而出，这才使得林克莱特发觉这孩子的悲悯之心远非笔墨所能形容。于是林克莱特问他说：为什么你要这么做？“小孩的答案透露了这个孩子真挚的想法：”我要去拿燃料，我还要回来！！！“

　　启示：这就是”听的艺术“。一是听话不要听一半。二是不要把自己的意思，投射到别人所说的话上头。要学会聆听，用心听，虚心听。